One word for me: God kept my heart alive with how He perfectly orchestrated everything, leading me down a path of joy, as we both enjoy life with such ease. My heart had grown numb, which made me decide to focus more on loving myself, but God had other plans and put me to rest.

I was done with love, especially “church love.“

On August 25, 2023, at 3:51 AM, after a friend’s wedding (GS), I prayed:
“Lord, open my eyes so I can see what’s best and suitable for me. I know that everything I need is already in Your house. PK (Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Voice in one of his GM Conference prayer)”

Fast forward to me loving life more—investing in my happiness through travel, work, and food. Then came the Wowman conference (a week-long women’s event at my church), where I volunteered to serve.

September 16 brought a new connection—Vera. I remember snapping a picture with her that day, and soon after, a new friendship started to bloom. Even though I had known her for a long time (since 2021), as the church’s General aka GV, a photographer, and a media person, we’d only checked in on each other occasionally.

Lo and behold, after one of the conference days, she called to check if I had gotten home safely. From that moment, our friendship began to take a new path. From Instagram to chatting (don’t ask about this!), something shifted. I prayed about her, and with faith, I recalled Proverbs 3:18:
“She is a tree of life to those who lay hold of her; those who hold her fast are called blessed.”

A few months later, I found comfort in the Parable of the Hidden Treasure (Matthew 13:44-45), which assured me of my commitment to her. Guided by the fear of the Lord, I followed the path that brought us together.

At 12:30 PM one day, I opened my heart to her. By 2024, I received confirmation from Luke 12:32:
“Do not be afraid and anxious, little flock, for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom.”

Though I had my concerns about marriage, God’s plan was greater, and now, victory is sure.